While We Wait on God…

Each fall, the Ruby-throated Hummingbirds linger at my feeder a few weeks longer than I expect them to. Their visits to and from my deck occur at an increasingly frenetic pace as September rolls along. If two or more of these little winged spitfires cross paths, they chatter and chase each other waging an all out territorial nectar war. As much as I enjoy watching them, each year as fall progresses, I wonder why they wait to leave. Being a planner myself, I long to encourage them to beat the migration rush.

I always assumed hummingbirds migrated because of the dropping fall temperatures. But, what I learned recently through a little research surprised me. Hummingbirds do need warmer temperatures to survive, but it is actually fall’s decreasing daylight hours which trigger a hormonal change and cause them to migrate.

While waiting for this internal alarm clock, they take care of important business– they eat. In order to survive the non-stop 500 mile flight across the Gulf of Mexico, which most hummingbirds will make every winter, they need to work on doubling their body weight before reaching the south. The sought after nectar at my feeder provides their tiny bodies with a high potency fuel. This fuel allows them to catch flies and other insects which are the staple of their diet. Yes, my sweet hummingbirds are carnivores! Who knew?!

So, it seems my concerns over the hummingbirds missing their window of migration opportunity and freezing are unnecessary. Instinctively, they know what they need to do without any help from me. There is no element of human logic, hurry, or worry in their timeline — only patient waiting and off they go.

I wish I could wait like that, don’t you? Waiting is challenging for humans, even in instances where benefits are certain — like lines for ice cream. When we are in the midst of a trial the benefits of waiting are especially hard to see. Waiting on God is not easy. We want to know what, when, why, and how things are going to happen. We want to plan, influence, and control events because all that waiting, well, it can make us feel like we are NOT doing anything.

But, what we need to remember is this: waiting on God IS doing something, and it does bring benefits. Like the hummingbird instinctively preparing for a strenuous trip, we too, can actively wait on God to direct our journey. While waiting we can:

Use God’s Word

For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Hebrews 4:12 NIV

When we feel stuck in a painful season of life, it is hard to find time, energy, and motivation to study the Bible. Consistently showing up on God’s doorstep, however, demonstrates our eagerness to learn. If we keep searching his promises for wisdom and reassurance, he steers us in the right direction. By using Scripture verses in our prayers, we honor God, and we pray the way Jesus did. Changes in our situation may be gradual, but they will be powerful when we allow the Bible to work within us. Reminding us of what is good and true, God’s Word shapes our character, decisions, and outlook while we wait.

Trust in God’s Character and Timing

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. Isaiah 55:8 NIV

On days when we are weary of waiting on the Lord, our faith can grow weak, and we may think God is never going to show up. But, the Bible repeatedly teaches us about three important attributes of God. He is omnipotent, omniscient, and omnipresent.

Omnipotent means God is all-powerful. He is in control and can handle any problem we face.

Omniscient means God is all-knowing. He knows every detail of our lives — from our birth to our death, who we will meet, and every situation we will face. Nothing surprises him or leaves him unsure of how to work things for our good.

Omnipresent means he is all-present or everywhere at the same time. God is always with us even when we feel alone.

If life is going well, we have a tendency to think it is all our doing. In hard times, we wonder if God knows what he is doing. Suffering, although frustrating and painful, encourages us to search for God and trust him to do things beyond ourselves. Waiting in the hardship of the unknown leads us to the comfort of what we do know: we belong to a God who is all-powerful, all-knowing, and with us at all times.

Pray Boldly

This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him. 1 John 5:14-15 NIV

In this Scripture, the Apostle John tells us with certainty that prayer works, and he knows how it works. Notice he says, “if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.” Prayer is not a to-do list for God to magically and immediately grant our requests. Rather, it is a means of receiving what is the will of God — answers which meet his good purposes and timing.

As we pray whatever is on our hearts, we must also consider God’s will. We humble ourselves as Jesus did saying, “yet not my will, but yours be done.” Praying for discernment, we think about how God wants to reach us or use us in this trial. His thoughts and ways are sometimes beyond our comprehension in the here and now, so we also ask for his peace to comfort us. Waiting encourages us to look for God’s instruction and pray with a bold confidence that he will do what is best. 

Love and Serve Others

He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. 2 Corinthians 1:4 NLT

Every trial we endure teaches us about suffering and comfort. Through our trials we gain valuable understanding about how to love and serve others. For example, we might be able to share knowledge about a medical procedure, empathize with feelings, cook someone dinner, or meet them for a walk. Waiting for God presents us with valuable opportunities to show others the love of Christ and to possibly find purpose in our pain. 

Harvest Gratitude

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NIV

Giving thanks while we are hurting can seem like an impossible task. While we do not feel grateful for our circumstance, we can be thankful for God’s presence in it — for all the ways he comforts us.

We can be grateful simply for the time God gives us to wait. In the waiting, we can learn his Word, place our trust in him, pray boldly, and love others. In the waiting, our character grows in patience and persistence. And in the waiting, we awaken to the hope we have in him for our future. Remembering the things we are grateful for, even in difficult circumstances, keeps us focused on God’s everlasting love for us.

This morning, a hummingbird perched on the bird swing I have attached to my window. He sat there, content, for the longest time. I smiled and paused in the moment. I watched him as he watched me.

“We wait,” I said to him. God is near. God is good. “We wait.”

Press on in faith, my friends!

 

Other Related Posts:

Where is God when Life Hurts?

Learning to Pray

Trusting God Along the Eagle Trail

The Worry Fight

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Making Pie with the Holy Spirit

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Today I made a pie. A most delicious pie, laden with the freshest fruits of the season, piled high in a flaky crust, and jelled into place with a delectable glaze.

This is my favorite pie. I’ve eaten it every summer for a long time. My mom made it for dessert when I was a kid. It tasted so good after a long hard day of make-believe, bike riding, and kick-the-can.

Today’s fruit pie, however, differs somewhat from the ones in the past. Because, while I was making it a well-known piece of Scripture came to mind. Do you know the one about the “fruit of the Spirit”?

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23 English Standard Version (ESV)

I paused to look this Scripture up and then tried memorizing the nine character traits as I worked. Yea, definitely a good mental exercise considering my hands were busy slicing fruit and not available for counting.

I started wondering if I really understood the meaning behind the words. So, when my hands were clean, I did some research on the Scripture and the Biblical definitions of these traits.

It was Paul the Apostle who highlighted these nine traits or attributes of Christian life in his letter to the Galatians. The Galatians were people living in Early Christian communities in a region called Galatia.

Paul’s teachings sought to convince people to follow the leadership of the Holy Spirit rather than selfish desires. The Holy Spirit, he explained, produces these nine traits or fruit within us. When the Holy Spirit leads us, we become more Christ-like and our faith grows.

Becoming more like Christ, with the help of the Holy Spirit, means we do not seek just one or a few of these traits, but all of them. The nine attributes together, as a sum, are the “fruit of the Spirit”. The following Biblical definitions of each trait help us understand why they belong together and how they work in tandem.

Love: Agape is the Greek word used to describe God’s love in the Bible. This love is not the warm, fuzzy, romantic love we normally think of. It is loving as Christ loved – freely and unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. Loving this way means our attitudes convey goodwill, and we seek the best for others despite their actions.

Joy: Happiness hinges upon the good and bad things happening in our lives, but joy is different. Joy wells up from a reservoir deep within and offers us a settled feeling of well-being. It comes from knowing that we are cared for. Sadness still impacts us, but we feel an awareness of strength, protection, and stable love because of joy.

Peace: Knowing God controls the events of our day creates an equilibrium or inner stability known as peace. Worldly pressures and conflict still exist, but peace keeps us calm. Even in the midst of conditions that are normally upsetting and traumatic, we trust that God will work all circumstances together for our good.

Patience: Perseverance, steadfastness, long-suffering, and endurance are other Biblical text translations for patience. We demonstrate patience by maintaining a steady pace in the midst of life’s ups and downs. It allows us to find hope in difficult times, and endure poor treatment from others without retaliating.

Kindness: Kindness is looking for ways to serve and praise others without expecting anything back. Seeing things from the perspective of others develops compassion and helps us identify what we can do to serve their needs. Kindness is sympathetic, considerate, and diligently works to encourage others.

Goodness: Displaying Christ’s character in your life and helping others experience God in their life is goodness. We work towards goodness by identifying and using our gifts to love others. Sometimes, goodness requires frankness and honesty with ourselves and others.

Faithfulness: Faithfulness is a resolve to serve God and a commitment to praise others for the good work they have done. Others look to faithful people for examples of integrity. When we are faithful, we surmount feelings of doubt and help others find hope in belief as well.

Gentleness: A tranquil disposition that forgives, kindly corrects, and remains even-tempered is known as gentleness. When we display the trait of gentleness we let others make decisions on their terms; we respect their relationship with God. We also weigh our own decisions carefully and strive to stay humble in our accomplishments.

Self-control: Releasing the desire to be in charge and allowing guidance by the Holy Spirit is known as self-control. Showing self-control means we trust that God has a plan and his ways are better than our own. When we practice self-control we continually consult the Holy Spirit regarding our thoughts, actions, and reactions.

Nine character traits is a lot to work on, wouldn’t you agree? The good news is we don’t have to do it alone. In fact, the Bible says we cannot do it alone.

Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me. Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing. John 15:4-5 New Living Translation (NLT)

This Scripture tells us the fruit of the Spirit grows within us when we have a relationship with Christ – knowing, loving, and imitating him. Joining our life to Christ ignites the Holy Spirit which leads to a fruitful life. A fruitful life, displaying the sum of these nine characteristics, in turn helps fulfill our two most important commandments – loving God and our neighbors.

This pie I made, it’s chock-full of fruit! Wouldn’t it be great if our lives, and all the lives around us were just as chock-full…overflowing with the fruit of the Holy Spirit?

Hmmm…the recipe for a fruitful life – we know it’s not an easy one to follow. And, we know with certainty, it won’t turn out perfectly.

But, the Holy Spirit will help us. It’s worth a shot, right? Yea, it’s so worth it. Have a bite…

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Fruit Pie Recipe

Ingredients:

1 C sugar

2 Tbls cornstarch

1 C water

3 Tbls peach jello

4-5 C fresh fruit (I used nectarines, strawberries, and blueberries)

1 frozen pie crust (I use Wholly Wholesome wheat pie crust)

Directions:

Bake pie crust according to directions and cool.

Mix sugar and cornstarch well. Add water and mix well. Cook on medium-high heat until boiling thick and clear. Boil 1 minute, stirring. Remove from heat and stir in the jello. Set aside to cool.

Cut the fresh fruit, removing skin if using nectarines. Pile fruit into the baked pie shell. Pour the cooled jello glaze over the top of the fruit. Chill in refrigerator for at least 2 hours.

Share with family, friends, and neighbors!